When we lost our beloved son Byron, our only child, my ex-huband went into deep grief, he lost weight, became listless, isolated, and it was clear he could succumb to a broken heart. He and I both shared regrets, and I felt guilty, at times, that I was alive and Byron wasn't.
Even though I could perceive spirits since I was a child. The human emotional part of me, still needed to process the myriad of emotions, and feelings that anchor at a cellular level, and persist in waves of sadness, deep longing to wind back the clock, and to end the suffering and grief.
Discovering a way to connect with our loved one ignites a multi-deminsional state of being. It miraculously gives hope, inspiration, and guidance from the other side. This connection is natural and precious, and changes the perception of grieving - evolving day by day,
Many of us who can see beyond the veil, perceive the energetic light cords that connect you to others, either positively or negatively. Death doesn’t undo energetic connections, and a clearing of what needs to be said, or done gives a form, a soul bathing ritual We cleanse the energy or cut the cords that bind - Freeing the spirit of the deceased and assisting us to go on.
Merrie Lynn's Query 4 John Edwards - James Van Prague on Grieving
Merrie Lynn: How can we prepare to access the energy field of our dearly beloveds who have passed on?
John: “My preparation is always mediation and deep breathing. And the rubbing of my hands together just gets my energy going.” Merrie Lynn: Do you actually see the person?
John: “I will see impressions, I will hear things, but I hear it in like, my own mind's voice, like a thought, and I get feelings, and I interpret what I'm seeing, what I'm hearing, what I'm feeling in my frame of reference.
Merrie Lynn: That is so clear. Even when I was a child, a spirit being would show up at my bedside nightly, like a smokey image, with a deep guteral breathing sound. One night I asked it who it was and it just sat there. A part of me heard the answer, "This spirit was a protector". Even though I sensed it was harmless, one night I asked it to leave, and to my surprise it never came back. I understood so much about that demension, that words could not explain. How does spirit manifest for you?
John: "Information comes through to me in 3 basic ways seen, hearing, and feeling the energy of the person that's crossed over. In which it is a symbolic type of language.”
Merrie Lynn: It can be uncanny at times. About a year before Byron's departure, he distanced himself from me. It seemed like a normal 20-year-old emancipating. But in many ways it had a strange finality to it. And, three months before his actual death, we became very close. He would go on and on about the great things I would be doing, and to get my book out, "Bounce Off The Walls - Land On Your Feet" that it would help a lot of people." I would answer, "You're the young one here, let's look at all the great things life has in store for you." Drawing a blank, we would just stare at each other.
John: “I believe that before anybody makes the journey to the other side, we have to know on a soul level that we are leaving, whether it's an accident or illness, and we prepare ourselves to a certain degree that we won't be there in the future.”
James: " Dreaming of departed loved ones is the most common way spirits communicate with those on earth. During sleep, your spirit body travels in the astral levels and is able to contact and communicate with the spirit family."
Merrie Lynn: Oddly enough it is my future self I am living - in that infinite potential. And by the grace of God... I am connected to Byron. He is my loving treasure, helping to guide me home:
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